Effects of abuse on children

• Children will respond in different ways but some of the effects may be:
• They may become anxious or depressed.
• They may have difficulty sleeping.
• They have nightmares or flashbacks.
• They can be easily startled.
• They may complain of physical symptoms such as tummy aches and may start to wet their bed.
• They may have temper tantrums and problems with school.
• They may behave as though they are much younger than they are.
• They may become aggressive or they may internalise their distress and withdraw from other people.
• They may have a lowered sense of self-worth.
• Older children may begin to play truant, start to use alcohol or drugs, begin to self-harm by taking overdoses or cutting themselves or have an eating disorder.

(Reference: https://www.womensaid.org.uk/information-support/what-is-domestic-abuse/impact-on-children-and-young-people/)

If the child, or anyone in the household, is at immediate risk of harm, always call the Police in the first instance. The Police will assess the immediate risk and take the appropriate steps to protect everyone involved.

Once out of immediate danger, seek support from a local domestic abuse service, who will have workers specially trained to give guidance on protecting children from abuse. This may involve moving the child into refuge accommodation with the non-abusing parent so they are safe and can begin to heal from their experiences.

Any physical, emotional, sexual, financial or coercive or controlling behaviour towards a child would be classed as domestic abuse. For it to be domestic abuse, the perpetrator would be a relative or family member, either by blood, marriage or family set-up. Specialist support is available for children who have experienced, and / or witnessed, domestic abuse, including therapeutic support, practical support and creative therapies.